Rise with Thorhildur

TANTRA I NON-MONOGAMY I SOVEREIGNITY

HI, I'm Thorhildur - wife, BOY mom & polyamorous for over 9 Years

My mission is to help you live and love in a way that’s true to you, with honest guidance, real support, and zero shame about what you want.

My work is for the love rebels, the ones who know there is more to intimacy than the standard scripts we've been told.

I help you break out of the silence, speak your desires, and build relationships where you feel free and deeply loved.

free video coaching

13 Questions to Ask Before You Redesign Your Love Life

They'll save you years of struggle & confusion and help create freedom and love that's truly aligned, whilst your and your partner(s) values and needs are met.

1:1 Coaching & programs

delicious offers for Your love revolution

ONE-ON-ONE COACHING

Personalized Coaching

Whether you want to get clear on what you truly desire in relationship, step into your own power, or explore your sexual energy and tantra, we work on what’s true for you. No judgment, no pressure, and no one-size-fits-all formula.

What You’ll Experience:

  • Clarity About What You Want
    Know what you want, what you need, and why it’s time to say it out loud.

  • Courage to Own & Speak Your Truth
    Learn to stay grounded and have the honest conversations you’ve been avoiding, even the scary ones.

  • Freedom to Live Life on Your Terms
    Make choices on purpose instead of by default, and build a life and relationships that feel deeply alive & aligned.

the mini course

Let's Talk About It

Ready to share your desire with your partner, but not ready to invest in 1:1 coaching yet? Then my full on-demand video course is perfect for you!

What You’ll Experience:

  • Clarity Before You Speak
    Get crystal clear on what needs to be said (and what doesn’t) with the Clarity Script to guide you through.

  • Courage Through Discomfort
    Speak up instead of silencing your desire one more time, with simple tools to stay regulated, plus the Regulation Toolbox.

  • Having the “What If” Conversation
    Know what to say, what your partner might actually hear, and what to do next, plus Date Night Discussions to keep talking.

signature program

Life Beyond Monogamy

this program is for those ready to Stop fantasizing about Non-Monogamy and start living it with full safety, respect & clarity.

No more lying awake wondering why one person isn’t supposed to be enough, or rehearsing the conversation you never have.

This is your green light to get honest about what you actually want, say it with love, and build a relationship life that feels as good within as it looks on the outside.

Six modules and live group calls take you from why this is calling you, to the structure that fits you, to the jealousy, the triggers, and the hard conversations. You’ll be supported by a community of people living this too.

TOTAL INVESTMENT €497

For the first time, I wasn't judged - I was seen.

Our sessions became my safe haven—like an oasis in the desert. Just stepping

into that space brought me a sense of calm. I could say anything, feel everything, and for the first time, I wasn’t judged. I was seen.

-ANNA (NAME CHANGED)

free 24 pages PDF guide

YOUR BEYOND MONOGAMY PLAYBOOK

Want to explore what type of relationship truly sparks your interest and why? Then grab this fun playbook for FREE and broaden your horizon.

before you go, tune into the

RADICAL SELF PODCAST

As a polyamorous married woman, mother and relationship coach I’ve got more than a few things to share. Expect deep conversations about love, relationships, non-monogamy, sex, spirituality and personal development. Radical Self is a space for the parts of you that have been silenced, suppressed, or scattered — and are now ready to come alive.